Which of the following are you doing — or are planning to do — to get your ex-girlfriend back? (Check the ones that apply to you.)
Promising her you’ll change — and that things will be different from now on
Persuading her to have a conversation with you to talk about ways that you can
patch up your relationship
Assuring her that you love her and that she’ll always be the only woman for you
Telling her you’ll always be her friend — and that you’re always there for her
whenever she needs you
Sending her flowers or a heartwarming letter or card
If you checked one or more of the above, I have some bad news for you. None — I repeat, none — of the above ploys will make your ex-girlfriend come back to you — no matter what the other so-called relationship “gurus,” books and courses tell you.
The fact is… ploys, tricks, mind games or any form of manipulation and persuasion that you might have heard about do not work on a lasting basis. While they could be effective in getting your ex-girlfriend back temporarily, she’ll be gone again as soon as she sees the reality behind the ploy. Worst of all, your ploys could backfire on you — and repel her away from you for good.
Listen, I know the pain and desperation you’re probably feeling right now, trying every drastic measure to get your ex–girlfriend back. Why? Because I’ve been in your shoes. I’ve suffered the misery of getting “dumped” by a girlfriend on more occasions than I care to admit.
If you think your breakup situation is a little “unique”, come post on the forum and let me and the rest of our community answer your questions. When you’re going through a breakup, it’s nice to have a place to talk about your unique challenges. Every breakup is a bit different and I’ve found that a members forum is a very important part to the healing and “getting them back” part. Take a look inside..…read more